Believing These 5 Myths About Sex Toys Keeps You From Growing
The variety of adult toys is surprising. Sex toys vary from purely male or purely female sex toys to toys that can be used by both sexes. Additionally, there are some sex toys that can also be classified as sex aids or marital aids.
The Purpose Of Sex Toys
Some adult toys aid the man’s erection, stimulate the female genitals to are more sensitive or give a different feel to ‘normal’ sex. Other adult toys provide an ‘environment’ for variations in sex, for instance so called orgy bed sheets. Sometimes they are used to help someone who has difficulty with unaided sex to accomplish sexual satisfaction. However most adult toys provide a new solution to directly stimulate the male or female genitals to achieve sexual satisfaction.
Using sex toys can provide new experiences and variation in the sexual experience. Additionally, it may give a fantasy element for enhancing or revitalising a relationship.
The usual expectation is a masturbator provides direct stimulation of the genitals in foreplay and/or during sexual intercourse or as a means to acquire orgasm through only the stimulation provided by the sex toy.
Types of Sex Toys
Vibrating Sex Toys
Probably the most popular sex toys are ‘vibrators’ which, because the name suggests, provide stimulation of the genitals using vibration. They’re mainly used to stimulate the clitoris, but may also be used to stimulate any other the main female body or that of a man’s.
The simplest of these are pencil or wand shaped (though normally thicker than a pencil). They often have an interior battery (or two) which powers a little electric motor. Sometimes the battery pack and controller are external and connected to the vibrator by a wire. This motor is fitted with a little, out of balance, weight attached to the shaft. As this weight rotates it throws the motor and vibrator right into a small circular movement which causes the vibration you feel.
With a vibrator that has a controller, as the power is increased the speed of the motor increases and with it both rate and strength of vibration. 避孕套 and rate of vibration effects how stimulating you discover the sex toy. The best effect is probably not as strong and as fast as possible. The optimum settings may change as your amount of excitement builds. To get the best results it is worth investing in a vibrator which is controllable.
Different vibrators could have different characteristics and you may well find you prefer one combination much more than another and your preference may even vary depending on which part of the body you are stimulating.
Recently electronic vibrator controllers have appeared which provide not only the static control of power/speed but also let you select patterns of power pulses and surges. These can be quite effective.
There are also other vibrating sex toys such as butterfly stimulators and vibrating penis rings.
Other Powered Sex Toys
There are some adult toys that use other ways to provide mechanical stimulation. These usually be determined by a motor which makes the masturbator continually change its shape which gives sort of rotational movement or helps it be move back and forth. The trunk and forth movements are occasionally powered by an air mattress pump rather than a motor. The movements have already been used to create, for example, mechanical licking tongues, vibrators that ‘penetrate’ the vagina and mouth simulators to provide a man a ‘blow job’.
On a bigger scale and many more expensive, you can find ‘sex machines’ that incorporate thrusting and vibrating dildos.
Combination Sex Toys
So far we have covered vibrating, moving and thrusting adult toys. Because you can have guessed they are all offered in a bewildering selection of combinations.
A common combination in lots of ‘Rabbit Style’ vibrators is clitoral stimulation using vibrations and vaginal stimulation using movement and sometimes a thrusting motion as well.
Many sex toys add varying textures to their surfaces; a dildo or vibrator may have ridges or soft spikes or a rippled shape.
Sensation Change Sex Toys
Some sex toys instead of provide vibrating or moving stimulation, change the feel of sex.
For instance there are a number of sleeves to put on the penis to supply different sensations for both partners while engaged in penetrative sex.
You can find rings that squeeze the base of the penis and/or tighten the scrotum that assist the man’s erection and also changes his sensations. There are penis extenders and thickeners which may give a man’s partner greater sensations during penetration.
There are a wide variety of lubricants that can significantly change the feel of sex.
There are PVC and Polyurethane bed linens that are water and oil proof that can be used for slippery or messy sex.
Why Use A MASTURBATOR?
An excellent question is: why do people use a masturbator? Surely fingers, tongues, penises, clitorises and vaginas etc all provide great sexual stimulation and enjoyment.
Well, apart from therapeutic uses (eg erection assistance), adult toys can drive the imagination (being taken by way of a machine), provide variety (new methods to do old things), vary the stimulating effects in otherwise normal sex (penis sleeves) and some can provide experiences not possible with ‘normal body parts’ (particularly vibrating sex toys and electro-stimulation).
Where To Start
When you have not tried a sex toy before and don’t yet have a good idea of what you might like, try one of many simpler vibrators first. Almost certainly you will enjoy the experience and then start to wonder what other delights are available with more sophisticated vibrators and other sex toys …